2025 is the year I decided to write as if a whimsical spirit possessed my fingers. Allowing the ideas to flow, streams of words have begun to occupy the three main writing projects I am working on. Why work on three at once you ask? Ask my ADHD brain. It will probably tell you that […]
This coming Wednesday the 30th of October, in Swindon, I will be joined by my fellow Mistress and Co-Author of The Ruthless Guide to BDSM – Lady Rampage. Some of my regulars have experienced the intoxicating blend of our combined skills. We have sessioned together all over the country and subs have served us as […]
The act of role-play dips in and out of fashion but never disappears. Kink and role-play are synonymous with the latter serving to deepen and add realism to the fetishist’s fantasy, whatever their kink. In my experience, the most popular roleplay that Slaves have requested over the years include; Head Mistress and unruly student that […]
Summer Sploshing happened so fast! Met a slave crazy for cream. He got sticky, soaked as can be! Shall I tell you more? Tell me more, tell me more, did you go very far? Ok, I shall tell you…. Recently I was excited to acquire a large paddling pool which is ideal for sploshing […]
Most can probably relate to the pressures of modern society and the need to respond to messages. If you are a domme, times this by at least 20 as not only do you have text messages and Whatsapps incoming but most likely multiple social media streams and sites where you will receive messages and have […]
Why are those within the realms of adult entertainment called sex workers? The name reduces to their work to sexual or indirectly sexual acts which is a very basic way of looking at the range of all the wonderful things they do. Why not sexpert, kinkspert or Erotic Body, Mind and Soul practitioners? I guess […]
If you are new to the femdom scene you might wonder what kink limits are. They are simply things that are off limits, that you definitely wouldn’t do or consider and these vary for everyone. You might even be under the false impression that limits are just for subs. Allow me to enlighten you – […]
Dommes will often discuss red flags in a sub but what constitutes a worthy sub? What are some indications that you are dealing with a respectful submissive? Naturally, they should be polite, and courteous and address you correctly. You would expect to see that they have done their research and know basic details such as […]
Degradation – a beautiful word that conjures up all manner of intriguing notions and ideas, and it’s so open to interpretation. For some, degradation might entail mild name-calling. For others like my Slave Zero (aka Fluffy when he’s sissified), degradation means seeking out the lowest depths a submissive can go to amuse his Mistress. […]
Balls. Gonads. Cajones, bollocks, jizzberries, betty swallocks, tea-baggers, nuts! If you have just escaped a religious cult and are baffled at my phraseology, I’m talking about testicles! Whatever you call them, they can be delicate little chaps. Perhaps that’s why some submissive men feel that the ultimate act of submission is to surrender their little […]
An introductory session is ideal for first-timers or subs and kinksters, who are looking to expand on their current level of training with a new Mistress. How is an introductory session different from a standard session? Often with regular subs, the Mistress may call all the shots or conduct the session in a more […]
Dear Kinkalicious crew, For some of you who live in or around Wiltshire, you may have felt a bit starved of your kink fix, unless you happen to be very lucky. For some time, Wiltshire was a sleepy county in terms of BDSM. That has all changed. Not only has Touch nightclub united kinksters with […]
After a game on X/Twitter where I got my kinky followers to come up with a new version of The Twelve Days Of Christmas, I decided to rework this other ballad with a kink element, so that you can hear this version inside your head when it next plays. Should make those long, Christmas dinners slightly […]
Don’t you just love the feeling of PVC? The way it gleams under the light, feels so silky to the touch and how it makes that crinkly sound as you move? It’s a great fabric for the boudoir and if you are brave enough, a dazzling choice for a club or event. I have a […]
I recently created a Vlog ‘What it’s really like to date a dominatrix’ on my and Pod’s Rumble channel KaznPodcast. The cast takes a look into what it’s really like to date a dominatrix, looking at some of the common misconceptions and myths. While it is all common sense and quite obvious, at least to […]
Good evening, my kinktastic lovelies. I hope this autumn is treating you well. I wanted to let you know about a brand new podcast I have set up with Podopheleous on Rumble. The podcast aims to educate on all matters of kink and BDSM and some of the topics we have created videos on so […]
There are some wonderful dommes in our community who are empathetic, creative and put a lot of energy into nurturing their subs and creating a safe scenario and a dynamic in which the domme and sub can explore power exchange. Unfortunately, in every industry out there, there will be scammers who are drawn to the […]
It’s been such a fun-filled, frantic journey visiting my Mistress friend Lady J Red in Surrey but all good things must come to an end and I must announce our final tour dates. These are: Friday 24th February 15th and 16th March and already taking bookings. I will never forget all the fantastic times, sessions, […]
Calling all sissies – it’s time to gather up your satin, frills, and bows for our post-Valentine sissy party! Lady J Red and I will be hosting a sissy party next Wednesday 15th Feb in Surrey. We will provide the makeup, knickers, and wigs and have some items of clothing you can wear. This will […]
It can get a bit repetitive writing about tours so here’s something a little different. Details at the end. A is for the anal play you’ve never tried before B is for your naughty bum as I spank you on the floor C is for the chastity if you’re feeling game D is for […]
EyemBlackSheep discusses what intimacy is like as a submissive male. Is this something you can relate to or is your experience different? Let us know in the comments box. If you would like to be a guest blogger for uk-fetish please email kazbxx@gmail.com or contact me on Kaz Twitter -KB ————————————————————————————————————— A few years ago […]
Femdom Parties in April Has the arrival of Spring given you more energy than a Duracell bunny? Well it certainly has for me and my Domme friends! We are organising an exclusive two days or Femdom parties to celebrate! This is a rare opportunity to attend a party with like minded people and get to […]
I’m delighted to announce a new tour for February. My anti-valentines tour kicks off 16th and 17th February in central Reading in a discrete, modern apartment. If you are a singleton there’s no need to feel as if you are missing out Valentine’s week, instead celebrate your freedom and indulge your inner kink! On the […]
Dear Slaves, Subs and kinksters I have a couple of tours lined up before the festive season hits us, so if you are eager to join me for a femdom session before we all become very busy, you may be interested in some of the following tour options below. If you are planning on making […]
I love creating digital clips and uploading them onto Clips4Sale. They’re like an army of digital mini-me’s providing thousands of JOI’s to you kinksters over and over again, 24/7. And it always pleases me to know the sissy’s amongst you can easily get inspired for your next session. Times are certainly changing. I would never […]
I have just returned from another fantastic day of domination duos with the gorgeous dominatrix, Mistress Lady Ashley, aka MLA. On occasions I have mentioned to some of my slaves that I sometimes work with MLA, and the funniest couple of responses I had were – “Oh really? But isn’t she really scary?!” “What do you […]
London Duo with Miss Lady Ashley in July If summer brings out your inner kinkster then you have plenty to look forward to over the coming months. Foot fetishists will no doubt rejoice at the number of women wearing flip flops on their daily commutes. In fact, most kinksters will probably enjoy the fact that […]
I’ve just returned from a great week of filming with Saskia Squirts. We stayed in a hotel right by The Thames and had a gorgeous view of the river next to us. This also made a great back drop for our lingerie shoot – bright neon colours and heels against a calming body of water, […]
Recently I was lucky enough to get invited onto the show Belle’s Secrets which is a popular online show and Youtube channel which explores various facets of the fetish and BDSM world. The fabulous Aussie host Chrystelle Belle who often co hosts with Selena Secrets was great to chat with. I find some interviews can […]
Yesterday, Saskia and I released tour dates for East London and here is a tantalising teaser of what we get up to when the two of us get together. I’ve kept the trailer as work safe as possible, however there may be some scenes which may cause viewers distress, and may be seen as crass, […]
Hello dear subbies and kinksters, It seems like a lifetime ago when we considered popping into the dungeon for a bit impromptu domination a pretty standard Tuesday afternoon. We’ve patiently waited for what seems like an absolute age and it finally our patience is being rewarded as we experience a slow return to normal activities. […]
Inside BDSM – the good, the bad, the kinky! A nosy student journo speaks to Mistress Kaz and finds out what in the world goes on inside BDSM! What are some of the misconceptions about being a dominatrix? There are many. Some people assume you wander the house clad from neck to toe in […]
Dear subbies and kinksters, I recently discovered The Velvet Rope, an amazing kink-friendly members club in the heart of Swindon. The club currently hosts socially distanced fetish and swingers nights and there are various rooms in a dungeon area that are available for Mistresses to hire. Having this gorgeous venue virtually on my door step, […]
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It’s come to the point where I could do with a personal slave to assist me with various aspects of my kinky profession. There may be weeks where you will not be needed, but it’s ideal if I can call on you (with notice) to assist me, so it would suit someone who is self-employed […]
Today I’m going to discuss Findom Versus Femdom. To start lets define each of those. Findom – A fetish in which a submissive person is aroused by giving money to someone he views as superior, or having his finances controlled. A sub with a true Findom fetish will not expect anything in return. Femdom – […]
Dear Subbies, sluts, slaves, & freaks, I fear that a small number of you have become rusty and have forgotten how to interact with a Mistress. A good sub should know that I provide services I enjoy, but I am NEVER working for you. […]
Hi everyone, It’s been a trying few months for everyone and I do hope you are finding ways to relieve some of the added pressure and tension caused by the current pandemic and being cooped up inside. I can only imagine some of you must be craving a good spanking or humiliating punishment. It’s been […]
The UK Fetish Awards Dear slaves, friends, fans and followers, An evening of hedonistic entertainment awaits you, I announce – the UK Fetish Awards! The awards were set up to help promote those that work in the industry for free, de-stigmatise it as a career choice and create a wonderful event to celebrate all those […]
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Acquiring a new, compatible domme can be a minefield for submissive gentlemen. The first part of the process is relatively simple, narrowing your search down to whoever seems to fit what you are seeking and finding out if you ‘click.’ You may then enjoy a wonderful session from your perspective, only to find she doesn’t want […]
Ever wondered what would happen if you could interview your favourite book characters? Today, in a conversation with myself, I interviewed Lady Athena’s loyal manservant Maid, from Dreaming in the Dark. He is an extinguished fellow, humble yet charming, and quietly brilliant. I would like to present you – the incredible gentleman – Maid! […]
Imagine this. You are spread-eagled on the bed, your wrists and ankles restrained to the bedposts, restricting your movement. Your Mistress then places a blindfold upon you, perhaps it’s cool black leather, rubber or even silk. The room fades to black as all visual stimuli melts away. If you are new to BDSM you […]
January 10th I return to Surrey for a flurry of sessions, late evening writing sessions for joint projects, and filming a documentary. In 2022 I had some fabulous subs whom I sessioned with, did video chats with, texted with, lunched with and even travelled with! If I didn’t get chance to meet with you last […]
This week’s very special guest is Manlock, a writer, submissive, and a keen contributor to the BDSM community. In the following article, Manlock writes that there is more to sex workers than meets the eye, and he debates the varied skillsets and people skills that sex workers must perfect to run a variable, ever-evolving business. […]
As requested by you kinky subbies, I have lined up more tours for June and July this summer in various locations. READING 14th pm and 15th June – One to ones, trio specials with Mistress Jessica Red and Mistress Ellie in Reading centre. Spaces are getting booked up fast so get in touch asap and […]
The following article below is written by Podopheleus who explores the idea of a kink CV. It’s an appealing concept. Let’s face it if every sub supplied a CV of his or her likes, limits, kinks, and desires along with a skillset, experience, and references it would make life much easier for his dominant! (In fact, […]
Sissy Party Tuesday 7th May Have you always dreamed of attending a sissy party, with strict, yet playful Mistresses to guide you? I have exciting news for all sissies in training and eager would-be sissy sluts! Mistress Petite and I are organising a sissy slut party in RG30, Reading on Tuesday 7th May. We welcome you […]
The classic worry of a chastity slave losing his or her key is common, but what happens when this becomes real and the key is nowhere to be found? Well, my sissy Steph and I found out exactly what happens when we session on Saturday night! Let me tell you the build up to this […]
As some of you may know, I often offer slaves the opportunity of having our one to one session filmed. The agreement is that they are permitted a mask or disguise, so I can use the footage on my clip sites such as IWantClips or Clips4sale, and they get to have […]
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