What To Expect From A FemDom Session With Me.

I receive contact from many new subs asking what to expect from a femdom session with myself and what an average session involves. The answer is that there is no average session! Each session is tailored to the individual slave.

I like to begin with a list of likes and limits from the sub to get an idea of things they have tried, want to try and what for them is totally off limits. Then I ask the sub to elaborate about any costumes that they particularly like and if they have any fetishes. This builds a picture in my mind and gives me a feel for them.

Some slaves may want to visit and spend a good 10-15 minutes chatting about previous experiences and how they would like to try something. Others prefer to get straight into a role play as they find that this can diminish any nerves. Some slaves found it hard to vocalise their wishes, so a role play is a great deal easier for them.

Some slaves will know exactly what they like and others will be uncertain so a first session may be a way for them to test the water. If I am made aware that it is their first session and they are unsure or not whether they enjoy pain, then I will lead them in slowly and then start with a few well placed strikes so I can read their body language. Others will want severe punishment and make me well aware that they are a deviant little wanker in good need of extreme punishment!

MISTRESS KAZ IN LATEX

Good communication is key. I have one slave who is a little shy and finds it hard to voice his fantasies – so he’ll bring me a note and it will say things like “Mistress looks down on me abusing me verbally, whilst forcing me to lick her heel.” This is a brilliant solution to his shyness!

The key thing to remember that if it’s your first session and you are feeling very nervous, let me know as you can experience a less intense ‘Taster Session.”

Your session will involve many of your likes but not your limits. I may add in a few extra things along the way but they will not be from your limits list!

If you are a sissy slut then it’s highly likely you will end up sucking my strap on at one point! If you have asked for a caning however and enjoy pain play then a strap on is unlikely to feature in the session unless the sub indicates a desire for this.

So my point is, the better a slave communicates with me be it verbally or in writing – the better his session will be!


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  1. Nick - 17th October 2016 at 3:34 PM - Reply

    Dear Mistress Kaz,

    I hope you are well.

    I have never visited a Mistress before however I do have a desire to be ‘used’. I have a specific role-play I would like to live out. I will try to be as detailed as possible and if you think it’s something you would like to undertake together, then I’d love to arrange to see you in Watford. I work 15 minutes from Watford, so we can arrange with little notice if that suits.

    After I’ve got over my nerves and given you your tribute, I would like the following role-play fantasy –

    I would like to come to see you under the guise of a business meeting. I own a company and I’m interviewing for a pa. We are both dressed casually. We exchange pleasantries and you leave to make us both a glass of water. When you return you catch me sniffing a pair of your dirty stained white cotton panties which I have found on the sofa. You snatch them from me and are at first embarrassed because they are so dirty and then furious and call me a pervert and all sorts of names. You say that you will never work for me and you want me out of your house. I apologize profusely and go to leave. You stop me from leaving and tell me that actually seeing me do that invoked certain dominant feelings in you. You tell me that the roles are now reversed and that you will be interviewing me for the job of being your slave and dirty little panty sniffers need to be punished. If I do not comply then you will inform my company of my deviant ways.

    You order me to strip naked and stand in front of you. You tell me that I am going to be your slave for the next xx minutes. I must do exactly as you command and I must serve you in every way. My penis is not going to be able to satisfy you (you show me your favorite dildo) so I will be used in other ways.

    You strip down to your lingerie and sit and order me to fall at your bare feet and to worship them. You instruct me how to do this, to lick every part of your foot, to clean and suck each toe. You force your foot deep into my mouth and make me gag. When you are satisfied you then force me to suck on the dildo and gag on that too. Whilst sucking on your feet/dildo you question me as to why I sniffed your panties. What did I like about them? What did they smell of? You order me to clean your dirty panties with my tongue. You tell me intimately about each different stain that I am cleaning. You then tell me that cleaning your panties is the easy bit and there is much worse to come. You make it clear that the dildo will be used on my arse, should I fail in my duties.

    You make me follow you to the toilet where you pee. You make it clear that you will not be using any toilet paper. You use my tongue for this. I have never experienced watersports before so I am not sure that I am ready for this, however I think I could take a little pee in my mouth if you wish to trick me. We shall see. We return to the bedroom where you order me to clean and worship your pussy. You may wish to sit on my face. You turn around and order me to clean your arse. You tell me all the things you have done since you last cleaned and that I am to make your pussy and arse spotless. I am to worship both until you are satisfied. I have no idea if ‘intimate worship’ involves making you orgasm or just worshiping you. You can guide me on this.

    Once satisfied that I have completed my duties you tell me to wear your panties over my face so I am forced to smell them. You play with my cock and balls with your hands and feet. You do not hurt me, but you are both sensual and forceful. You tell me that every time I fantasize or masturbate I will be forced to think of my mistresses feet and my mistresses scent. I belong to you. You tease/deny me multiple times perhaps using a small dildo on my arse. Again I am not sure I can take this. You allow me to stand in front of you and masturbate. I beg to cum on your feet and toes which you allow with a caveat. You force me to lick up my own mess off your feet. If I complete this final task (which I’m not sure I can) then I will be permitted to come and see you again for further training.

    So, what do you think? Is this a role-play you would be interested in or am I barking up the wrong tree? If this is not for you, as I appreciate this is not really BDSM, then that is fine of course. If we can proceed, how long do you think we would need?

    Kind Regards,

    Nick


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